Skip to main content

No Deadlines


"Dreams don't have deadlines," LL Cool J
A few years ago, I heard this quote during a lecture by Jacob Glass, one of my favorite teachers who I have listened to and learned so much from since 2014. When Jacob shared this quote, I wrote it down immediately and I remember thinking "thank you Jacob I needed to hear this". In fact, hearing that quote was a bit of a turning point in my path to achieving my personal business goals. I physically felt lighter and freer after that lecture and memorizing the quote. 

The quote itself is wonderful, thank you LL. And although, I don't remember all the details of the lecture (I have probably listened to over a hundred lectures at this point), in his usual way Jacob Glass, helped me release a sense of urgency and pressure that I was holding over myself to be "further ahead" with my respect to my business goals and dreams. I also remember my good friend of over 20 years joined me for the lecture as we were also celebrating my birthday. Our lunch conversation was centered around the lecture and LL Cool J's quote. I remember we both came away thinking and feeling, "that's right, keep dreaming, keep trying, don't give up, dreams really don't have deadlines". Considering I was moving past my mid 40s that day and my good friend was moving into her mid-60's, we were hella inspired by both Jacob and LL.
Recently, I once again was starting to feel that self-imposed pressure and noticed the self-criticism creeping up in my day to day thoughts. Those thoughts about my not being further ahead in my business goals and really feeling like I haven't achieved much with respect to those goals. In fact, I would say that my business goals are at a complete standstill. Sure I can blame COVID-19 but the truth is, I wasn't achieving much with respect to my business goals prior to this virus descending upon the entire world and my world too. Granted I know the reasons why my personal goals have been on a back burner for the past two years. I consciously made a decision to focus on honoring my son Andrew's life and death. But that didn't seem to be enough for those thoughts to keep from creeping in. Fortunately, I came across LL's quote in my Quotes Journal which I look at every once in a while. So glad I did as I once again felt lighter and validated that really, there is no deadlines on our dreams, there's no rush. Sure sometimes it does feel like there is urgency, I am not going to lie, I would like to achieve true financial freedom and build my social enterprise which will greatly enhance the betterment of humanity (did I mention I dream BIG?) sooner rather than later. But in the end and what revisiting this quote helped me remember is that as long as I don't give up, as long as I keep trying, dreams and goals can be achieved. I hope the quote does the same for you. Let us not give up on our dreams!

Join me as we Dream together and Enjoy the Journey:







Comments

Popular posts from this blog

The Rubber Hits the Road

“Life's challenges can either make you or break you. Let them make you ". Billy Cox I wrote in a prior blog post that enjoying the journey of Life entails several things including, "...dealing with obstacles, struggles, challenges, losses and curve balls as they come but not letting them keep us down..."  Back in April of 2018, when I started my blog post and wrote those words, when I was getting my new business project Vida805 off the ground and was getting ready to self-publish my book, my Life changed drastically. That's an understatement, it was more like a major curve ball came my way. I was truly blindsided by Life's circumstances. I am not sure if I am ready to process all of what happened and how it has affected my life and the lives of so many other people. Not because I am not ready to disclose the details, I have been open about it (there was no way not to be) with family, friends and acquaintances but more so because I am still processing i...

Improve or Play?

“I arise in the morning torn between a desire to improve (or save) the world and a desire to enjoy (or savor) the world. This makes it hard to plan the day.” ― E. B. White If ever there was a quote that I can 100% relate to, it is this one. Actually, I have a long list of quotes that just hit me in the gut with the truth they speak (to me) but I do love this one from Charlotte’s Web author E.B. White. I have noticed that I have always had this battle going on in my life, since age 18 when I decided to be a professional social worker. “Work hard, play hard” was another way that I lived this quote and all through my teenage year to early thirties, I did just that. As the years have gone by I have realized that my desire to improve the world and play has not diminished, try as I may. And believe me I have tried not to care about improving anything but myself. But my compassionate heart (sometimes I think “Yeah thanks Mom” in a sarcastic way) and the “rescuer” in me always seems to rem...

The Most Important Years

"Give me a child until he is 7 and I will show you the Man"  Aristotle I have always known but mostly in a back-burner type of way that my life work, my true contribution to the world would someday revolve around teaching youth about the importance of sex education and family planning and as a result of having a healthy acceptance and understanding of these two very important practices, they would someday practice conscious parenting and as a result of that, the world would become a different place, a better place. As every child born into this world would be truly wanted, truly loved, cared for by its' parent or parents during the most important years of its' life, provided with all of the resources needed to nurture each child's true potential and natural tendency towards wholeness, love, brilliance, kindness and compassion. Of course at age 17 when I made this commitment I didn't know the term Conscious Parenting but I do remember saying to myself, ...